Question by Dagger: I am depressed and obsessed with my crush. How do I get over him?
I don’t even feel like studying except thinking about how I’m not good enough.
Answer by Xiao Mao
Four words that should never be thought let alone spoken: “I’m not good enough.” By saying you’re not good enough, you’re only putting yourself down and that’s a no no. Take it from a person who used to constantly say “I’m not good enough”, it’s not healthy. You’re lowering your worth, self esteem and you’re ruining relationships around you when you think this way. DON’T DO IT!!! You were made in God’s image. You’re a wonderful person who should never let those words cross your mind ever again.
To get over your crush, you have to realize that he’s not the only guy out there, you’re beautiful and you need to block him out of your mind. There are plenty of other guys out there who will think you’re the best thing since sliced bread and you’re the sugar to his tea. Believe me, there’s a guy out there for you, you just have to look. 🙂 Secondly, before you love others, you gotta love yourself. See yourself as the beautiful, and intelligent girl you are and by doing so, your confidence will sky rocket and you’ll see life in a more positive light. Now, here comes more of the difficult task: getting him off your mind. Take up some hobbies, hang out with your friends and don’t even talk about guys, but if you do, make sure it’s not the guy you were crushing on. And whatever you do, do not associate things and or people with him, it’ll only make it worse.
Stay positive, have fun & have a great day!!
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